Kathmandu in one week (I): sites, villages, and local people – Nepal

02 Dec

On the evening of September 25th, I flew from Bucharest to Kathmandu. I had a stopover of one hour (which lasted two hours due to some delays) in Doha, Qatar. Qatar Airlines had displays incorporated into the front seat, and I could watch movies during the flights. Time passed quite quickly during the first flight from Bucharest to Doha. But during the second one, from Doha to Kathmandu, I fell asleep because it was past midnight. When I woke up, I looked out of the airplane’s window and saw the snowy peaks of the Himalayas for the first time in my life.

I landed in Nepal the following morning, after a total of thirteen hours of flight (without considering the confusing difference of time zones). I woke up to reality in Kathmandu’s airport, which had the atmosphere of the ’70s. There, I paid for my visa for three months (100$). Unexpectedly, no one waited for me at the airport as I had expected (and talked in advance). When I went in front of the airport, all the taxi drivers jumped on me but no one had my name written on their cardboard.

I tried to withdraw some money from a bank machine, but none of my credit cards were functional. Therefore, I left my big backpack with a Nepali man selling SIM cards at a Ncell store and went to exchange some money at an office in the airport. I bought a local prepaid SIM for Internet, and, finally, wrote a message on Facebook to Dinesh (Sega’s acquaintance from a travel company). Dinesh told me he had forgotten to send me a driver, but he urgently sent me a prepaid taxi. The taxi took me to the Home Heritage Hotel in Thamel, where I had booked a single room beforehand. Hira (Dinesh’s employer) waited for me at the hotel. Dinesh had sent him to greet me as a request of forgiveness for forgetting to send me a driver to the airport.

Eating dhal bhat for the first time (of course, I didn’t know how to mix up all those things)

Eating dhal bhat for the first time (of course, I didn’t know how to mix up all those things)

At the restaurant of my hotel, I had my first dhal bhat – the Nepalese traditional dish with rice mixed up with spicy sauce and vegetables. Then, I sunbathed on the rooftop terrace, while I was waiting for Hira to come and escort me to Dinesh’s travel agency in Thamel. Dinesh was yawning and talking on the phone when I came in. He hardly paid attention to me but the conclusion was the same. I couldn’t go to Tibet because the Nepali border with China was still closed after the 2015 earthquake. Only the Nepalis and Chinese could cross the border. A roundtrip flight via Lhasa – Kathmandu had a fixed price, set by the Chinese government, and it didn’t worth paying so much only to go to Tibet (700$).

Kathmandu, the first day

Short Description: I explored Durbar Square. My first feeling walking down the streets of Kathmandu was overwhelming. I felt I couldn’t handle my way out through the maze of streets, but I activated my sense of direction after a travel break of several months. Eventually, I somehow reached Durbar Square.

Long Description.

Durbar Square was an architectural and urban complex, listed as a UNESCO World Heritage Site, and it dated back to the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries. Durbar means “palace” in Nepali. The kings of the town were crowned in the square and they lived in the nearby palace. The Durbar area consisted of three squares – the Basantapur Square (the former royal stables), the main Durbar Square (which included all the temples), and the square in front of the Hanuman Dhoka Palace (which had a series of no less than four or five patios).

Kathmandu – Durbar Square: Tribhuvan Museum with Lohan Chowk

Kathmandu – Durbar Square: Tribhuvan Museum with Lohan Chowk

Big and small temples, altars, cows, peddlers, pilgrims offering orange flower garlands to the temples, crowds of tourists, guides for tourists, rickshaws, beggars, and saddhus were teeming in Durbar Square. There were still many temples, even after the 2015 earthquake when some of them had collapsed. Saddhus are men ‘spiritually advanced,’ but the ones sitting in the square were rather competing to pose in photos for tourists and ask them for money.

Kathmandu – Durbar Square: Trailokya Mohan Narayan Temple

Kathmandu – Durbar Square: Trailokya Mohan Narayan Temple

When I entered Durbar Square, a guide wanted to offer me a tour, but I refused him and smiled assertively. Everybody sold something all over the square. Sabitri sold me a pair of wooden earrings that seemed both unbelievably cheap and beautiful. Pulna sold me a bag with a mandala drawing on it, which I bought for the same reason. Both women had beautiful makeup and spoke English, although they had never been to school.

Kathmandu – Basantapur Square: everybody sells something

Kathmandu – Basantapur Square: everybody sells something

On one side of the Durbar Square, there was the house of the living goddess, Kumari. The Kumari Devi was the reincarnation of Durga. When I visited her house, I wasn’t allowed to see, touch, or photograph her. The house was considered a holy place and saddhus dressed in white came to worship there. The Kumari goddess was chosen by a complex set of criteria. She had to be born as a member of the Newari caste of goldsmiths or silversmiths. She had to have thirty-two physical features (eyes, teeth, voice, not to be afraid of the dark, etc). However, the Kumari Devi would lose her purity and the title of a goddess when she would have her first period.

Kathmandu – Durbar Square: Kumari Ghar (the house of the Newari living goddess)

Kathmandu – Durbar Square: Kumari Ghar (the house of the Newari living goddess)

Guide Jyaipun recognized me when I passed close to him for the second time. He still wanted to offer me a tour, but I confused him when I asked where to eat in the square. He led me to a local eatery, where he paid for my meal, too. We had somos (a spicy pie with potatoes, onions, and beans, served with a sweet-sour sauce) and seil (a kind of sweet donut, with a lot of sugar).

Kathmandu: a crowded street south of Durbar Square

Kathmandu: a crowded street south of Durbar Square

In the afternoon, I walked down the streets south of Durbar Square. I observed Buddhist stupas within various courtyards and Hindu temples, where merchants proudly displayed their wares. While I was walking back to Thamel, a saddhu came to me and offered a red tikka to me for good luck. He painted a red dot on my forehead and put some orange flower petals on my head. After that, he asked for money and seemed unhappy when I gave him ten times less than what he asked. I continued my walk along the streets north of Durbar Square and stopped from place to place to look around and admire the local architecture.

Kathmandu: Yatkha Bahal (courtyard) with a Buddhist stupa

Kathmandu: Yatkha Bahal (courtyard) with a Buddhist stupa

At Indra Chowk market, I explored the stalls selling beads popular for married Nepalese women. The beads had a brilliant combination of yellow, red, and green and only men made them. Women ordered the beads model and then sat on stools in front of the shop while waiting for their new pair of beads to be made.

Kathmandu – Indra Chowk: the bead shops for married Nepalese women

Kathmandu – Indra Chowk: the bead shops for married Nepalese women

In the evening, I met with my guide-cum-porter, Rishi, at the restaurant of the hotel. We talked about the trekking I wanted to do (Tamang Heritage Trail in the Langtang Area). Rishi had done the trek once but wasn’t sure of the correct trail. He said I shouldn’t pay him because we had common friends, but I told him I would give him as much as I could afford. We set up to leave by October 15. Everything seemed okay.

Kathmandu, the second day

Short Description: I went to visit the Garden of Dreams. After that, I walked randomly through Thamel. I explored the local lifestyle and the shopping possibilities in Thamel Chowk, Paknajol, and Sagarmatha Bazaar in Mandala Street.

Long Description.

When I entered the Garden of Dreams, I had the feeling that I wasn’t in Nepal. A British marshal designed the garden that had rigorous influences creating a stark contrast to the outside world. Everything was shiny and in perfect order, with rippling and sparkling fountains, squirrels running all over the place keeping their tails up. They were chasing each other and asking for food from people. Nepalis were relaxing on mattresses or directly on the grass. The garden had manicured grass, colorful flowers alternating with banana trees, and a very expensive restaurant on site. Something totally different for Nepal.

Kathmandu – Thamel: the Garden of Dreams – the Passion Flower

Kathmandu – Thamel: the Garden of Dreams – the Passion Flower

Thamel was the touristic district of Kathmandu. It featured unexpectedly cheap accommodation and hotels, restaurants, and shops all close together. You could find anything, anywhere, anyhow, and at any price (which was negotiable anyway). I couldn’t understand what I had to do to withdraw money from a bank machine because some credit cards were functional, some weren’t. The rickshaws were lining along the street, waiting patiently for clients. Taxis were honking on the narrow streets. I found out that a map was useless and I better used a GPS in case I got lost.

Kathmandu – Thamel: rickshaw driver waiting for his clients

Kathmandu – Thamel: rickshaw driver waiting for his clients

When it rained (the monsoon season wasn’t over yet), all roads were flooded with water mixed with mud – a marvelous combination. Twisted cables and billboards mixed up in bunches seemed complex architectural details. However, all in one, I felt good in Thamel, despite all the existing mess. I had everything on hand and I could experience the Nepali atmosphere gradually. I didn’t have to make a sudden jump from the European civilization left behind the previous week. In a nutshell, Thamel was a Nepali district dedicated exclusively to Western tourists. Perfect for me!

Kathmandu: fruit seller in Thamel

Kathmandu: fruit seller in Thamel

In the evening, I met with Diku – a Nepalese girl I had found on the Couchsurfing platform. She was a mountain guide and worked in a travel agency in Thamel. For dinner, Diku had masala tea and pakauda (balls of onions, potatoes, and other vegetables, a bit spicy) and I had lassi (Nepali yogurt).

Kathmandu – Thamel: dinner with Diku at Happy Kitchen

Kathmandu – Thamel: dinner with Diku at Happy Kitchen

Kathmandu, the third day

Short Description: I decided to rent a bike to be more flexible. I cycled through Kathmandu to Swayambhunath (the Monkey Temple). After that, I pedaled up a steep hill for five kilometers, all the way to Ichangu Narayan (a small, authentic temple I had read about in the Lonely Planet guide).

Long Description.

I negotiated and rented a bicycle at a shop in Chhetrapati Paknajol, a neighborhood close to Thamel. I had the feeling that I was cycling in hell for the first three hundred meters. Taxis, rickshaws, bumps in the road, and people walking chaotically discouraged me completely. Nevertheless, I persevered and cycled further on. I turned right at Chhetrapati Chowk crossroads and pedaled down to the Vishumati River. When I wanted to cross a very busy street, I had to get off the bike and step by step move toward the middle of the street. If possible, I hid behind another pedestrian and managed to cross the street this way. Eventually, I crossed the street in approximately ten minutes. After that, I continued to Swayambhunath.

Kathmandu – Swayambhunath Temple: a woman selling flowers for offerings at the temple

Kathmandu – Swayambhunath Temple: a woman selling flowers for offerings at the temple

Swayambhunath (or the Monkey Temple) was a Buddhist architectural complex, listed as a UNESCO World Heritage Site. It sat on a hilltop and had a large, white, imposing stupa in the center. Monkeys invaded it all the time. When I got there, they were running all over the place, entering shrines and eating offerings (flowers, fruit, or rice), or they were scratching each other for hours. They seemed aggressive if someone dared to get closer to them.

Kathmandu – Swayambhunath Temple: watching the monkeys passing by in a line

Kathmandu – Swayambhunath Temple: watching the monkeys passing by in a line

In the courtyard of Swayambhunath Buddhist complex, a row of shops lined around the stupa and sold religious items. In Bishu’s shop, a CD with Om Mani Padme Hum mantra was playing. The sacred mantra means the entire path that an individual has to perform in life to transform his body and mind. Crooning the mantra, I entered Bishu’s shop. Bishu told me that he was not a wealthy man and that fewer tourists came to Nepal after the 2015 earthquake. He added that Christians lived in Nepal, too. During the earthquake, a priest had locked his parishioners inside his church and had told them that God would protect them. The church had collapsed and all the forty-nine people inside the church had died.

Kathmandu – Swayambhunath: a woman with her chickens

Kathmandu – Swayambhunath: a woman with her chickens

From Swayambhunath temple, I cycled five kilometers uphill to Ichangu Narayan, a village near Kathmandu. There, I found a small temple in a courtyard with many deity statues. The temple dedicated to Vishnu (reincarnated as Narayan) was built of wood in the pagoda style and had wooden rafters and reinforcements carved with deities colorfully painted. When I went there, the place was deserted. A bit later, two-three Nepalis came and worshiped, put a tikka on their foreheads with red paint from the statues, and walked clockwise around the temple.

Ichangu Narayan Temple: a happy cycling day around Kathmandu

Ichangu Narayan Temple: a happy cycling day around Kathmandu

When I returned to Kathmandu, I stopped once again at the Monkey Temple, on a platform at the starting point of the stairs for pilgrims. Monkeys were chasing each other everywhere. I sat on a bench next to other locals. A woman wore beads made in Indra Chowk – the place I had visited the previous day. An old man with a rosary in his hand was whispering prayers from a book with yellow pages. A Nepali man was expectorating every two minutes, while another one accompanied him blowing his nose. Two old women leaned slightly forward saying ‘Namaste’ to a man sitting on a bench and then sat down next to him. When I couldn’t bear the spittings surrounding me anymore, I took my bike and returned to the ‘European civilization’ of Thamel.

Kathmandu – Swayambhunath: the Monkey Temple with monkeys

Kathmandu – Swayambhunath: the Monkey Temple with monkeys

Kathmandu in one week (I) is the first travelogue about Kathmandu, Nepal. You can find the version in Romanian at ‘O saptamana in Kathmandu I. The continuation of this travelogue can be found at the following link Exploring Kathmandu in one week (part II). And here are all the Travelogues from Nepal (x12).

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32 Responses to “Kathmandu in one week (I): sites, villages, and local people – Nepal”

  1. NowThatsAHoneymoon January 4, 2017 at 12:22 am #

    Oooooh the experience was at first seemed dreadful, with no one to pick you up at the airport! But the rest of the trip looked worthwhile. Kathmandu is beautiful!

    • Authentic Travels January 4, 2017 at 9:34 am #

      Traveling challenges you in the most unusual situations. But in the end you realize that you can overcome anything that happens to you and that fear and worries don’t have a place in you heart.

  2. JOI January 10, 2017 at 9:25 am #

    IT IS ALWAYS A JOY TO VISIT A NEW PLACE AND EXPLORE IT; TRY THE DIFFERENT FOODS AND EXPERIENCE A NEW WAY OF LIFE; AMAZING

    • Iuliana January 12, 2017 at 11:45 am #

      You are so right ! I always enjoyed try new foods and seeing new places in the world.

  3. ArtByHeart February 15, 2017 at 1:47 am #

    Kathmandu is such an amazing place of contrasts! So many poor people and some foreigners and business people who live in relative luxury compared. However what mostly fascinates me are the Buddhist monks everywhere, they humble ways touched me deeply, even though I am a Hindu!

    • Authentic Travels February 15, 2017 at 8:58 am #

      Waw, that’s fantastic. It is so interesting that you are a Hindu. 🙂

  4. Shane March 11, 2017 at 9:31 pm #

    I honestly didn’t know much about this destination so thouroghly enjoyed your comprehensive overview. Love the photos of the temples!

    • Iuliana March 12, 2017 at 11:49 am #

      Yes, the Hindu temples are a true work of art !

  5. Katie @ The Katie Show Blog April 24, 2017 at 4:54 pm #

    Wow this does look like a really authentic experience and I am so glad you shared it to inspire others. Even the rough start is all part of the adventure right?

    • Authentic Travels April 24, 2017 at 12:10 pm #

      Nepal had many rough parts for me but now that I am back home safe and healthy I take it as an experience that is part of life. And I am happy that I can share it with you and be an inspiration for your future travels.

  6. Cori April 27, 2017 at 4:27 am #

    What a beautiful passion flower! It’s funny how every trip has something go wrong, but it sounds like you took it in stride. It’s hard to imagine a place where having monkeys run around is normal!

    • Authentic Travels April 27, 2017 at 11:56 am #

      I didn’t know that it was the passion flower. Not all Nepal is full of monkeys, but especially some temples have monkeys running all over.

  7. Claire May 5, 2017 at 3:19 am #

    Kathmandu looks amazing – from the colourful markets & beautiful temples to the cute monkeys! I’m glad you enjoyed your trip in the end, even when things don’t work out it still makes for a great story!

    • Authentic Travels May 6, 2017 at 12:02 pm #

      Well, lately it seems that I am experiencing that balance between ‘things that go well” and “things to don’t go well’. There’s always a balance though sometimes we don’t want to accept the bad ones and lie to ourselves.

  8. Aubrie June 11, 2017 at 3:12 am #

    Wow you have so many amazing pictures! Kathmandu would be an incredible place to visit and just look at those cute little monkeys!

    • Authentic Travels June 11, 2017 at 12:05 pm #

      The monkeys are cute but they are aggressive as well if you come close to them, so take care when you go there.

  9. Anne June 12, 2017 at 10:19 am #

    Kathmandu looks amazing, really colourful with lots of things to go. Nothing worse than turning up at an airport though without being able to get money and no driver. It can def tell be overwhelming

    • Iuliana June 14, 2017 at 11:52 am #

      The funny thing was that I tried to prevent this talking beforehand with a driver to wait me … but everything was in vain. A promise in Nepal is different than a promise in other parts of the world.

  10. Candy July 18, 2017 at 1:45 am #

    I’ve never read a post on Kathmandu, so this was so interesting! I especially enjoyed reading the section about the Indra Chowk market. I usually see women making small crafts like beads, so it was a surprise to see that it was all made by men.

    • Authentic Travels July 18, 2017 at 12:07 pm #

      Indeed, Indra Chowk is well hidden behind a crowded crossroads so you cannot find it unless you carefully read the guide book before. It was my first day in Kathmandu so I was very curious to explore all that different world.

  11. George August 14, 2017 at 6:05 pm #

    So I know this post is about Kathmandu, but I have to say I was pleasantly surprised to see you were in Bucharest. Not many people I know choose to travel to Romania, so it’s always fun to see when someone visits less explored destinations. On a different note, I love the Monkey Temple, the photos of the monkeys are fantastic.

    • Authentic Travels August 14, 2017 at 8:14 pm #

      As a matter of facts, I am Romanian so I had to take the flight from the capital of our country, Bucharest. 🙂

  12. Paige Wunder September 6, 2017 at 3:15 am #

    Looks like Kathmandu is just as amazing as I’ve always dreamed! I have friends who were there during the earthquake, and were safe, luckily. But I’ve been wanting to go for a very long time and I’m finally going to get there late this year or early next! That garden will be one of the stops we have to make! Cheers!

    • Authentic Travels September 6, 2017 at 12:04 pm #

      Go in autumn after the monsoon is over – late October – November is even better. This year, unfortunately the monsoon was a bit late and I had to to a trek in a foggy, misty atmosphere – didn’t enjoyed it as if it were the panoramic views over the Himalayas.

  13. Swati & Sam September 15, 2017 at 11:14 am #

    I have never been to Kathmandu but your pictures are inviting enough.Pre earthquake it was more beautiful

    Thank god your WiFi was working and you were able to contact the travel agent on FB. No money and no idea where to go sounds daunting for sure .

    • Authentic Travels September 15, 2017 at 11:18 am #

      Well, actually I knew were to go but I didn’t know how because I was relying on the driver from an agency. I had to buy a sim in the airport in order to contact the travel agent, so a lot of work just because I had planned it wrong.

  14. Megan Jerrard October 3, 2017 at 7:40 am #

    Definitely sounds like an experience! I’ve heard from many people that Kathmandu is quite overwhelming at first – some people seem to love the chaotic mess that the city is, and some people can’t seem to handle it. I give you full credit for navigating the city on a bike! I would love to go though, it sounds like there is so much fascinating culture and lovely people. That’s what travel truly is to me 🙂

    Love your photos from the monkey temple!

    • Authentic Travels October 5, 2017 at 11:54 am #

      It was a bit scary for me either to ride a bike but I managed to get used to it in the end. It is a chaotic city, sometimes makes you feek very tired, but you can bare it as an experience .

  15. Megan Indoe November 8, 2017 at 9:51 pm #

    This is getting me so amped for our trip there next month! I want to see that monkey temple! I also like that you can get a bike to get around! Sounds like you had a great trip!

    • Authentic Travels November 10, 2017 at 12:08 pm #

      You can get a bike but remind yourself how your mother taught you to cross the street when you were little. Riding a bike there is more a necessity than a pleasure.

  16. Hra December 19, 2017 at 4:33 pm #

    This is a great experience for one week in Kathmandu 🙂 Its a useful guide and you have lovely photos as always! Thanks for sharing with us

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